Member Support / Frequently Asked Questions

Member Email/ Interaction Questions •  How do I get more members to reply to my messages?
Whether you're sending on-site emails or SMS messages a few simple rules go a long way.

First, is your profile complete? 99.99% of the time female members do not respond to male members who have not added a picture (with their face in it) and filled out their profile info.

Next, you need to have realistic expectations about how online dating works.

Male members send about 100 times more messages to female members than the other way around! Male members sending WELL-WRITTEN messages generally get one reply to every 20 to 50 messages they send!

Finally, is your message WELL-WRITTEN? Women get copy/paste emails all day long. Take the time to personalize your message to the person you're sending it to. The basic information can be the same but put something in there to show her you actually took the time to read her profile. Women like that!

One final note on SMS: obviously it is more immediate and tougher to write a long message. But always start off with introducing yourself! "Hey, this is from ! I saw your profile...
"What do you think a female would think if she got a text from some guy she
doesn't know with "Nice Boobs"?
•  How do I change my email address?
Simply login to your account, click on Account Settings at the top, and then click the Change My Address in the System link.
•  How do I change my email preferences?
It's really easy to change what emails you do / don't receive from us. Simply login to the site, click on the Account Settings link at the top, and then click the Set My Site Mail Sending link.
•  Where is my confirmation email?
You can resend the confirmation email under Account Settings / Resend my email confirmation. Once sent you should receive the confirmation email within 5 minutes. If you don't see it be sure to search your spam folders for your username.
Profile Questions •  How do I get more members to view my profile / contact me?
Add some pictures. NOT just pictures of your private parts but pictures of your face.

Fill out all your profile info HONESTLY. It's fine to play up your strengths but if you set off peoples B.S. alarms they're not going to contact you.

Add some videos. Add people to your Friends Network. The more friends you have the more likely someone will feel comfortable hitting you up.

Play the Quickie game (link is in the top navigation). It's a quick and easy way to let people know you're interested and vice versa.

Upgrade your membership. The higher your membership level, the higher you show up in search results.

When I use the Member Tweets who can see my Tweets?


Simple: when male members send a tweet, all female members see it. When a female member sends a tweet, all male members see it.

How do I block someone from viewing my profile / contacting me?


We've got a lot of options to help you block unwanted attention.

In your on-site inbox, if you get a message from someone you don't want to hear from again, simply click the Block User button:

If you don't want to hear from a particular type of member, you can click on Account Settings at the top of the page and then click the Set My Global Blocking link.

Also on the Account Settings page you can also control your Friends Network Privacy.

Finally, if you want to take a break and hide your profile from everyone you can do that in the Profile Visibility section of Account Settings.
•  How do I report a scammer or questionable member profile?
When you get an on-site message from a scammer simply click the link at the bottom that says "Click Here to Report this message as Site Abuse/Scam".
•  How do I block members from viewing my profile?
You can set your profile to Not Viewable under Account Settings.
•  How do I update my profile?
You can update your profile under Account Settings by clicking on
the View/Edit my profile link.
•  How do delete my account?
Simply login to your account, click on Account Settings at the top, and then click the Remove My Profile and Delete My Account link.

Note: deleting your account is PERMANENT and cannot be undone. We HIGHLY recommend instead of deleting you simply set your profile to "Not Viewable to All Members (Profile Suspended)" in the Account settings page instead of deleting your account!
Picture Questions •  I'm having trouble uploading a picture (or video).
If you are getting an error failed on uploading pictures to your profile they could be the wrong format or too big for upload. Try taking a "selfie" from your phone and try again.

Pictures

• Maximum File Size is 7MB.
• Minimum Photo dimensions are 200 width and 200 height.
• The photo file must be a standard JPEG file. CMYK JPEG files will be rejected.
• Any other file type renamed to have a .jpg extension will be rejected.

Videos

• Maximum File Size is 25MB.
• File formats supported: .flv, .mov, .wmv, .rm, .mpeg, .mpg, & .avi.
•  How do I upload a private picture or photo album?
Under Account Settings click View/Edit my profile link, then under Private Photo Albums click the Edit button.
•  What are the photo guidelines/restrictions?
• Maximum File Size is 7MB.
• Minimum Photo dimensions are 200 width and 200 height.
• The photo file must be a standard JPEG file. CMYK JPEG files will be rejected.
• Any other file type renamed to have a .jpg extension will be rejected.
• Photos must not contain anyone but you.
• Photos must not contain anything illegal.
Membership/Registration Questions •  How do I change my username/password?
Our system does not allow changes to usernames. Changing your password is easy. Simply login to your account, click on Account Settings at the top, and then click the Change My Login Password link.
•  I forgot my username/password.
The fastest way to obtain your user name or password is for you to return to the site that you originally signed-up for and click on the "Forgot Password?" link found on the login page. You will then be asked to provide the email address you used to join the site with. Once completed, your password will be e-mailed back to you. If you aren't receiving your password via email, be sure to check your email account's spam folder.
•  What can I do with my free basic membership?
The purpose of the free membership is to enable you to get a feel for the site and how it works and give you confidence that your paid membership will function as expected. As such there are limitations on how many profiles you can view daily and sending messages. Upgrade to a paid membership to remove these limitations!.
Gift / Friend Questions •  How do I add a profile to my favorites?
When viewing the profile simply click the Favorites Add link.
•  How do I search for other members?
Click on Search in the top navigation. You can search by Near Me, Online Now, Newest, Detailed, Username, Best Matches, Featured, and/or Text/SMS.
•  How do I send a friend request?
When viewing a profile simply click the Add to Friends button.
•  How can I send a virtual gift?
When viewing a profile simply click the Send Gift button. Also whenever sending a message (on-site email, flirt, v-mail) we also give you the option to add a virtual gift to the message. Simply select the gift you'd like to add.
Text / SMS / IM Questions •  Is my real phone number ever revealed to other members?
No. Never! Our system is 100% anonymous. The numbers we reveal for members to text each other are OUR phone numbers. Your SMS's are routed through our system and we deliver them to your real phone number.
•  How do I enable Text/ SMS functionality?
If you provided your mobile phone number when you created your account, we sent you a SMS message you needed to reply YES to in order to confirm your phone number. If you didn't do that you can still add your number and confirm it:

• First, click on Home in the top Navigation
• Next, in the right-hand column at the top, click Edit My Profile
• Next in the Edit My Profile page click on the topmost Edit button
• Next, simply click to enter your phone number
• Enter your phone number and then hit the button to Send Confirmation Text
• Within 30 seconds you'll receive a SMS w/ a 4 digit pin code. Input that number on the next screen and hit Confirm My Number

Alternatively you can simply reply back to the SMS you got from us with the word YES. That's it. Now you're good to go!
•  How can I send text messages to members?
When viewing a profile, if the member has enabled SMS, click the Click Here To Get My Number link to get the phone number you can use to text the member.
•  Can I make a voice call to a member's number?
No. Currently our system only handles traditional text messages.
•  Can I send Photo / (MMS) Multi Media Messages?
No. Currently our system only handles traditional text messages.
•  How do I opt out of receiving text messages from members?
It's Very easy:

• First, click on Home in the top Navigation
• Next, in the right-hand column at the top, click Edit My Profile
• Next in the Edit My Profile page click on the topmost Edit button
• Finally, change the YES in the Allow Members To Text Me drop-down to
NO and click Continue.
•  Can I delete my mobile number?
When a user opt-out of the SMS Functionality we setup a global block of the user's number on our system so no member SMS's will ever get delivered to that number again. We have to hold onto your number so we know what to block.
•  How can I disable/enable IM chats?
At the home page, click on "My Account Settings". Scroll down to find the "Text and IM Chat Settings" options. Click/Tap on "Enable/Disable IM Chat". Here you can select whether IM's are enabled or disabled on your account. If you disable your Instant Messaging you will still be able to initiate IMs, even though you appear to others as unavailable.

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